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March 10, 2007

As Long As I Don’t Have To Watch It, Fine.

Filed under: — Chap @ 2:58 am

So. Matt Sanchez. He’s got a column in Salon that’s reprinted on his blog, and is getting an additional fifteen minutes of fame the hard way, as it were.

I’d have more to say about it but CDR Salamander has said it better. (Jeff Goldstein also has trenchant observations, with the return of the lying rooster and a link roundup.) Bottom line for me: What Sanchez wrote that got all the attention still holds, and we don’t care much about Hidden Pasts like the one dredged up as much as we do the implied attack on a shipmate.

I think this is another case of folks not understanding how the military relates to itself. Howard Veit comments that nobody really cared when they were fighting in Korea, and that’s pretty much the dominant thought. Check out Blackfive, for instance. When a guy runs for office who was a vet, we don’t worship his Sacred Veteran Status; he gets a listen, and if we think he’s wrong we don’t ostracize him–we just don’t vote for him or call him on it. In the case of Iraq vet turned candidate Paul Hackett, there was another attack when Hackett got thrown under the bus by his own party, but that’s another story. (I readily grant that Murtha’s a completely different kettle of fish.) Maybe next week we’ll find out something really icky about Sanchez, but until that happens the blackmail–and the intended chilling effect for anyone else who Wanders Off The Accepted Reservation–failed to have the impact the outers intended. We military tend to turn our backs on our own for different situations. And in any case, I’ve noticed over the years that the people who are loudest about their prudery are most likely to be caught in sad and sordid situations, so better to have the occasional film star hanging around opining.

Military folks are human, so there are all sorts of strange people, and if the guy followed the rules, who cares? I worry more about the guy I met by email one day who got a Purple Heart, severe damage physically, and he feels worse that he felt like he let his unit down because he came out after he got discharged. Damn shame, because he’s got nothing to feel bad about–maybe it’s sublimated survivor’s guilt, or whatever. Those trying so hard to advance Teh Rights Of Teh Ghey don’t help that guy out very much in their zeal to follow a narrow ideology instead of the rights they say they want.

2 Responses to “As Long As I Don’t Have To Watch It, Fine.”

  1. Skippy-san Says:

    A couple of things- I’m not so sure that military people do not care if someone is gay or not. A lot of folks I know will distance themselves from someone if the veil of plausible deniability is shattered-e.g. that someone is confirmed to be gay. I believe they prefer it just fine if they do not have know that detail of someone’s personal history. Once you know, well I can’t look at the person the same way ever again. Maybe that is just my personal quirk. I just thing there are some thngs that need to stay in the closet. Its better that way.

    Second, I don’t think this somehow makes conservatives more virtuous than left bloggers. Conservative blogs have been equally guilty or have we forgotten when Malkin crossed the line of decency last year in publishing personal info she had no business publishing. I still believe that if the roles had been reversed-some conservatives would have outed Sanchez in a second. They would have done it gleefully.

    To me the extremes of both sides are more alike than they care to realize.

  2. Chap Says:

    Heh. To the left of Skippy I am today…

    I read about the Malkin thing–she (oh! scandal!) reprinted info on the person’s own website. So please forgive my dry eye on that one.

    As for your claim about the right versus left and outing, I’d say that I know the names of lefties who spend their time publicly looking for people to out, but don’t know the names of righties that do so. As a matter of fact I know of righties who’ve discussed and discarded such approaches. I could be wrong, but it looks to me diffr’nt.

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